Physically, you may carry traces of the male Aquarius, such as broad shoulders, but what I find more fascinating is the way your shoulders symbolise your true nature of bearing the burdens and challenges of life. You offer an interesting perspective on the tricky setbacks in life, and you are blessed with innate creativity and a highly individualistic mind. You can effortlessly look beyond traditional conventions and rely on your own liberating and innovative grey cells instead.
Aquarius Zodiac Sign
What makes you truly Aquarian is the comfort and grace with which you blend within a circle of friends and stand uniquely apart. While you're endearing on the one hand, you're also hugely challenging and unpredictable. I wouldn't be surprised if you attracted silent envy from your friends. After all, few are blessed with your spirited outlook towards life and the fearlessness with which you leap into the unknown. Uranus bestows on you a rather unpredictable temperament.
On the one hand, it greatly influences your energy levels. It makes you full of life, spontaneous and unusually forward-thinking. Yet it also makes you rather changeable. There is no way of knowing when you will turn around and be at your worst.
Aquarius Zodiac Sign: January 21 - February 19
This is when you leave many stumped or emotionally hamstrung. Those who know you are aware of just how hypersensitive you are, but they are entirely oblivious as to why. A lot of time could be squandered brooding over innocuous statements. It's not so much the statement that pricks you, but your judgment of people.
At the same time, your heart is in the right place and your motives are pure. A Born Leader. You're a rational thinker and logically devise solutions to life's impediments. You're blessed with sharp intuitiveness, self-confidence, and innate leadership skills, which are qualities that will help you go along way in life.
You naturally exert a commanding influence on others, and you will always find people who look up to you, even in social circles. You're exhaustive and methodical in your research. While this may be an asset, it can also be a detrimental. Aquarian women have a knack for finding fault. Your reasoning is undisputed and you're always well prepared for unexpected debates or arguments. You also have a highly sensitive and humanitarian side to your personality. You're benevolence personified, and you fearlessly stand up for what is right.
Your heart is soft, provided you are convinced of the other person's motives. And good research will always win you over! You may experience momentary bouts of lonesomeness, or the feeling that you are not being backed up. This is because you give a lot more than you receive, which creates a deep-seated void and the sense that you are being taken for granted. The only way to plug this is to tactfully voice your opinion rather than lounge around hoping the other person will understand.
Although you're a bundle of contradictions, your core is beautifully tender, compassionate and adoring, qualities that truly define who you are. Try and monitor your temper and thoughts , however, and allow room for others to be themselves. Few are as courageous and spirited as you, and you need to respect that, Aquarius. Though Uranus makes you lively and energetic, don't allow it to disrupt your balanced and happy way of life.
An Aquarian child has a unique temperament, sometimes complex but certainly extraordinary. This child is curious but at the same self-willed and they will challenge you at every opportunity. You will need to be particularly shrewd in raising them and may feel at times that a degree in psychology would be a very handy thing to have ready for those difficult moments when they arrive.
They need delicate handling by their parents as getting them to do something on your terms can become a monumental problem. You may eventually learn that to get something done, you are the one who will do most of the compromising to fit in with their unusual way of seeing and doing things.
If an Aquarian child digs their heels in you may never get the task done at all and this is where your psychological skills will come into play.
February 9th Element
They are sensitive and intuitive and on the surface may appear to be outwardly calm, relaxed and delightful but in a moment they can rebel against commands and rules. The young Aquarian can often look more confident than they actually are so parental understanding and genuine encouragement are needed.
Like any child Aquarius needs love, especially in the form of respect, listening, appreciation and friendship. They are adventurous and being eccentric and explosive they are likely to have their fair share of thrills and spills with the associated bumps and scratches that go along with this. It is a wise parent who keeps an eye on where they are and who they are with. Although they tend to have a large circle of friends they may find it difficult to establish a close relationship. They tend to be detached and dispassionate and don't like too many emotional demands being placed upon them.
They are inventive and like to get to the bottom of how things work. Toys such as electronic sets, laboratory games, and brain-teasing puzzles are all excellent choices for them. Unusual and novel games and will keep them occupied and help them develop their inquisitive minds. As they grow older, their minds will also develop at an amazing speed so you need to continually offer them challenges.
You may find that they don't quite fit into the average suburban school and in this case, you may need to consider what alternatives are available to give them the best chance of developing their skills. You're constantly restless, seeking innovation and an element of excitement in all that surrounds you. This tendency becomes your defining trait in relationships.
You like to test the waters and have many relationships over a long period of time. It's almost like a litmus test to rule out the wrong partners before settling down with someone you love. However, your compassionate self soon comes to the fore, preventing you from toying with relationships for too long. Your preliminary romantic engagements all pave the way towards a committed love that endures and blossoms beautifully.
My benchmark for a real love affair is my Aunt Mary, an Aquarian who is blissfully savouring the joys of her nearly sixty years of marriage. Regrettably, many make generalisations about their lack of commitment and hunger for adventure, and they deem them less credible or dependable as prospective romantic partners. However, this is definitely untrue. Your fifth zone of love affairs is ruled by the child-like , lively and occasionally superficial Gemini and Mercury.
This lends a playful disposition and casualness when it comes to exploring romantic possibilities. Love is a voyage for you, and to sustain a commitment, it is critical that your partner remains mentally buoyant and interested. Mercury bestows you with the ability to blend in, remain youthful at heart, and have a curious mind, even in your nineties.
For you to appreciate a relationship and hold it close to your heart, you'll need to keep it alive through adventure, fun, and oodles of chatter. Leo and the Sun preside over the marriage sector of your zodiac. To comprehend the true implication of this, get to know Leo. For the uninitiated, Leo is one of the most loyal and trusted star signs, armed with an unflinching ego. Quite naturally, you radiate an instant reverence towards people with strong identities who are ready to take on the world.
The Aquarius-Pisces Cusp
Despite the fact that you, Aquarius, want the freedom to engage in a multitude of non-sexual friendships, your partner needs to be extremely loyal. You want your spouse to be an equal. They must unchain you from the stress of having to be accountable for each and every move, giving you ample freedom to creatively explore your intellectual and social pursuits, which are so ingrained in your nature. If you find such a relationship, you are more than willing to stand by their side and support their goals as well.
Benevolent Aquarius have a unifying effect on your relationships and friendships, and you create a sense of togetherness among the people connected to you.